Love.It is a one word that composed of four letters and variety of distinct meanings.It may describe compassionate and affectionate action toward human oneself.Furthermore,it may classified into a different types such as divine love,hence,we considered this is as an agape love because it denotes the love of God for humankind.In the New Testament,it refers to the covenant love of God for human as well as the human reciprocal love for God;the term necessarily extends to the love one's fellowman.Thus,the word itself,it may also refers to a storge(familial),friendship(philia),and romantic desire(eros). But what is true notion of love for a couple or a love broken couple?And why they strongly believe that love hurt them?
Nowadays,a great number of homes are consisted of a broken family due to a fact either a mother or a father was absent in that certain dwelling and supposedly a parent should be unite to establish a conducive and non-threatening environment and maintain the strong families ties with love and affection toward each member of the family.However,solidarity is essential to the success of marriage,so if the both parties were sudden fall apart,how could they attain this goal?Marriage by God's design is the union of one man and one woman.As what a Sacred Scripture says,"So,the Lord God cause a deep sleep to fall upon the man,and while he slept,took one of his rib and close up its place with a flesh.And the rib that the Lord God taken from the man He made into a woman and brought her to a man.Then the man said,"This at last is bones of my bones and flesh of my flesh,she shall called a Woman,because she was taken out of Man."Therefore,a man shall leave his mother and father and hold fast to his wife and shall become one flesh"(Gen.2:21-25). In addition,"Though one may be over powered,two can defend themselves.A cord of three strand is not quickly broken"(Ecc.4:12). These three cords represent a husband,a wife and God. Considering that,the two is stronger than one is one thing.But understanding the two unite with one God is even stronger.So,how come a husband or a wife cheated his/her partner which is it against the divine law and what is the significant of their solemn vow.Apparently,when a couple first enter into a marriage,the last thing they are thinking about is divorce.But,through a years of being together,the couple may enter times of hardship and trials that threaten their relationship or the worse is fall out of love for their partner.They didn't allow God's word come into a play.In fact,according to the Bible,"Therefore,what God has joined together,let no one separate"(Mark 10:9)
Otherwise,men are more likely than woman to cheat.According to a study,it is estimated that close to fifty percent of all men will cheat at some point in their lives.They are more likely to consider leaving their spouse when they're having an affair.The wife or a person,who left behind by love of their life,drown in depression,and it seem their world had been crashing down.A family crisis which is caused by a unsuccessful marriage will engulfed the whole family that lead their child will suffer the most.Children are the first person who would be affected by their selfish decision.Moreover,the devastated person(wife/husband) ruining herself/himself by any means because according to them,"there is no essence of life without our love". They are being blindsided,so how about their child or a member of a family who rather to stay with her/him?But God said,"And the man that commit adultery with another wife,even he that commit adultery with his neighbors wife,the adulterer and adulteress shall put to death"(Lev.20:10). On the other hand,unmarried couple or a single person also experiencing this kind of conflict in their relationship or in their lives(single status) especially longing for their love one's or their crushes.Some of them can't move on from their past relationship.They can't allowed their heart to welcome a new love because they are dread of getting hurt or they might still for their exes.And those couple who are recently broken and being left by their boyfriend/girlfriend or being betrayed were become a bitter gourd toward their opposite sex.For example,nowadays "hugot lines" are trending for teenagers or even for the adult,I know a person can't directly shout out or to express those such words without "pinaghuhugutan". Everytime they dropped those verbatim,there is someone who they want to be hitted by those lines.And the person who can relate with it would be influence and clouded their mind with bitterness.For a real talk,after a break-up,either a boy/girl suffered heartaches and it consume them to the relish.They are frequently experienced an emotional pain,and sometimes psychological depression because of rejection,betrayal,divorce or romantic rejection.Or even worse they can't move on over a several years because the past memories were still ricocheting-back and keep replaying in their mind.
Instead of worrying about their love life,people should face the reality of life.There are a lot of things should be consider first such as poverty,social discrimination,crimes,less job opportunities and other social issues.For a wife or a husband,who had been greatly affected by unsuccessful marriage,try to resilient from depression and adversity.We have to let go those people who are not deserving for our love,and always remember that they are not the only person who love us but we have a our family,friends and most of all God love us.Guide and raised your children accordingly.
There are so much that life can be offer.Just live with soul.And they say,you live only once.Live life for the fullest.Laugh as much as you can because it is the best medicine.Most of all,love.Let your heart felt the best feeling you could ever have as long as it will respect the moral reference frame.If you get hurt again,just ease the pain and move on because life never end there.Live happily because that is the best thing we could do on our journey.
Nowadays,a great number of homes are consisted of a broken family due to a fact either a mother or a father was absent in that certain dwelling and supposedly a parent should be unite to establish a conducive and non-threatening environment and maintain the strong families ties with love and affection toward each member of the family.However,solidarity is essential to the success of marriage,so if the both parties were sudden fall apart,how could they attain this goal?Marriage by God's design is the union of one man and one woman.As what a Sacred Scripture says,"So,the Lord God cause a deep sleep to fall upon the man,and while he slept,took one of his rib and close up its place with a flesh.And the rib that the Lord God taken from the man He made into a woman and brought her to a man.Then the man said,"This at last is bones of my bones and flesh of my flesh,she shall called a Woman,because she was taken out of Man."Therefore,a man shall leave his mother and father and hold fast to his wife and shall become one flesh"(Gen.2:21-25). In addition,"Though one may be over powered,two can defend themselves.A cord of three strand is not quickly broken"(Ecc.4:12). These three cords represent a husband,a wife and God. Considering that,the two is stronger than one is one thing.But understanding the two unite with one God is even stronger.So,how come a husband or a wife cheated his/her partner which is it against the divine law and what is the significant of their solemn vow.Apparently,when a couple first enter into a marriage,the last thing they are thinking about is divorce.But,through a years of being together,the couple may enter times of hardship and trials that threaten their relationship or the worse is fall out of love for their partner.They didn't allow God's word come into a play.In fact,according to the Bible,"Therefore,what God has joined together,let no one separate"(Mark 10:9)
Otherwise,men are more likely than woman to cheat.According to a study,it is estimated that close to fifty percent of all men will cheat at some point in their lives.They are more likely to consider leaving their spouse when they're having an affair.The wife or a person,who left behind by love of their life,drown in depression,and it seem their world had been crashing down.A family crisis which is caused by a unsuccessful marriage will engulfed the whole family that lead their child will suffer the most.Children are the first person who would be affected by their selfish decision.Moreover,the devastated person(wife/husband) ruining herself/himself by any means because according to them,"there is no essence of life without our love". They are being blindsided,so how about their child or a member of a family who rather to stay with her/him?But God said,"And the man that commit adultery with another wife,even he that commit adultery with his neighbors wife,the adulterer and adulteress shall put to death"(Lev.20:10). On the other hand,unmarried couple or a single person also experiencing this kind of conflict in their relationship or in their lives(single status) especially longing for their love one's or their crushes.Some of them can't move on from their past relationship.They can't allowed their heart to welcome a new love because they are dread of getting hurt or they might still for their exes.And those couple who are recently broken and being left by their boyfriend/girlfriend or being betrayed were become a bitter gourd toward their opposite sex.For example,nowadays "hugot lines" are trending for teenagers or even for the adult,I know a person can't directly shout out or to express those such words without "pinaghuhugutan". Everytime they dropped those verbatim,there is someone who they want to be hitted by those lines.And the person who can relate with it would be influence and clouded their mind with bitterness.For a real talk,after a break-up,either a boy/girl suffered heartaches and it consume them to the relish.They are frequently experienced an emotional pain,and sometimes psychological depression because of rejection,betrayal,divorce or romantic rejection.Or even worse they can't move on over a several years because the past memories were still ricocheting-back and keep replaying in their mind.
Instead of worrying about their love life,people should face the reality of life.There are a lot of things should be consider first such as poverty,social discrimination,crimes,less job opportunities and other social issues.For a wife or a husband,who had been greatly affected by unsuccessful marriage,try to resilient from depression and adversity.We have to let go those people who are not deserving for our love,and always remember that they are not the only person who love us but we have a our family,friends and most of all God love us.Guide and raised your children accordingly.
There are so much that life can be offer.Just live with soul.And they say,you live only once.Live life for the fullest.Laugh as much as you can because it is the best medicine.Most of all,love.Let your heart felt the best feeling you could ever have as long as it will respect the moral reference frame.If you get hurt again,just ease the pain and move on because life never end there.Live happily because that is the best thing we could do on our journey.
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